Check below the signs wey go show say your partner fit dey spoil your relationship.
1. Dem no dey give full attention.
When dem talk to you, dem dey half listen, dey reply email for their phone, or dey glance TV wey dey behind dem. Even if dem no mean to rude, dem dey show say wetin dem dey do dey more important pass wetin you wan talk. Make you try give dem your full attention. E go help avoid fight wey fit show up later.
2. Dem no go help till you ask.
Just because your partner no talk say dem need help no mean say dem no go appreciate am. If dem just dey sit down dey watch, e be clear say dem no care. Instead of making help feel like burden, take the step dey help before dem ask. By that time, e go don too late.
One 2023 research show say even though e fit hard, ask help from your partner dey important for healthy relationship. E dey build trust, closeness, and support.
3. Dem no dey see wetin dey important wey no dey interest dem.
You don ever fight start with “Wetin be big deal?!?” The matter fit no be serious, but na because one partner no wan understand the other side wey dey cause wahala. Even if na small thing like which cloth dem go wear go dinner, give dem your thoughtful opinion no be roll eye. Na something wey dem care about and value your opinion.
Instead of dey cause wahala, try make you dey engaged, even if e no dey make sense to you. Na true love.
4. Dem no dey always show up
Good partner fit get plenty qualities, but being reliable dey among the top. E no just good to be reliable generally, but na how dem dey build trust with other people too.
Even if na small thing like dinner reservation, make you honor am. Each time dem disappoint their partner, dem dey show say dem no fit be trusted, and that no be any good quality to get.
When person dey unreliable, e fit create emotional distance as partners go dey reason wether to rely on the other or to open up their heart.
